For Women and Girls

Valerie travels the nation empowering women to relational fulfillment. Incorporating humor and life experience, she decodes the man language that often frustrates and overwhelms women. Valerie has age-specific presentations to target the needs of your group:

  • From Mess to Magnet: Five Secrets to Attract and Keep Lasting Love is designed to equip women—single and married—with relationship advice from men that women would be crazy to ignore. A modified version caters to young ladies from teenagers to college-age.

  • I Love Myself Too Much to Give You My Goody Box focuses on boosting confidence, respect and self-love for girls twelve to seventeen years old.

In these workshops, you will discover:

  • Three things that cause you to make terrible relationship decisions

  • Every man’s private marriage checklist

  • A simple two-letter word that makes him want to pop the question

  • Why he just won’t propose

  • Little signs that tell you he’s the one

  • How to become a “man” whisperer with advice from men you’d be crazy to ignore

Valerie has great stories that will empower, inspire and encourage your audience to finding fulfilling relationships. She has spoken / appeared on numerous shows including The Mother Love Show. The Forbidden Secrets of The Goody Box has received rave reviews in local and national outlets.

 To book Val, call 888.802.1802 or submit your request here.



For Stepfamilies

As a stepmother, stepdaughter and now step-grandmother, Valerie J. Lewis Coleman has experienced the drama and reward of life in a stepfamily from multiple perspectives. For years, she struggled to parent five children from three different households. She instilled respect into her two biological sons and assumed the same respect would be honored by her husband’s children. At times, the frustration overwhelmed her. Without the support of family and friends, her marriage would have failed.

Initially, she blamed the parenting skills of her husband and his ex-wife; however, after an introspective analysis she realized that she was a contributor to the confusion and chaos. All of her heartaches, frustrations and sleepless nights were the labor pangs required to birth her passion to help others stop the stepfamily madness.

Your audience will enjoy Valerie’s proven advice including

  • Top eight things every stepparent should know

  • Little known ways to avoid the wicked-stepmother syndrome and win the heart of daddy’s girl

  • Twelve steps to make the most of your stepfamily vacation

  • The power of a parental agreement

  • Five keys to avoiding stepfamily holiday blues

  • 101 ways to cope with stepfamily stress

  • Sifting through the murky world of child support and the IRS

  • How not to disinherit your biological children in a stepfamily merger

  • Managing stepfamily finances: credit, benefits, insurance and more

Valerie has great stories that will empower, inspire and encourage your audience to family restoration. Valerie has spoken / appeared on numerous shows including The Mother Love Show, NBC and Fox. Blended Families An Anthology has topped several bestsellers lists and has received rave reviews in local and national outlets.

“Step-parenting is like managing a late-night convenience store: all of the responsibility and none of the authority.” -Valerie J. Lewis Coleman

To book Val, call 888.802.1802 or submit your request here.

If you don’t see what you want, contact Val to cater a presentation specific to the needs of your audience.